"Love your life and live it without competing with the next person, so that you can be the best person the world has ever had."__ Gift Gugu Mona

Everyone is born with a free- will, that is, we can take any decision that we wish to take. Sometimes, it is often good to seek advice but we are often left with whether to heed to such advice or not. 

In an effort to impress others, some people have lost touch with themselves.

You need to love yourself for who you are and you must know what you want for yourself. Irrespective of the opinions of others.

You can never change how people feel about you. Leave them with their expectations. Do not allow anyone to steal your happiness. You can never be like everyone.

Believe in the beauty of your dreams and have confidence in your abilities. Because someone said it is impossible does not actually means it is impossible, everyone is free to their opinions.

Be true to yourself. Life is a personal race. Live your life without comparing your life with others. Stop wishing you were someone else.

Success is a relative term. Create your own definition of success and never be intimated by the success of others.

Be who you are. Do not live to impress others, live your own life in such a way that makes you happy.

Live a happy and fulfilling life. A life that you will be proud of. Let your life align with your standards.

Love life, follow your passion and stop listening to your inner critic.

You have the power to steer your life in whatever direction you choose. Therefore,  take over the driver's seat of your life.

You are solely responsible for whatever you become. Therefore, take full responsibility for your actions and never blame anyone for your inactions.

Finally, it is high time started living your own life and not other people's lives. You have a unique role to play in the universe. There is something that makes you different from others. Celebrate and commend others but never forget to appreciate your own uniqueness. Please don't be lost in the crowd of trying to please everyone because you can't please everyone irrespective of how hard you try to. Live your own your life!

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"The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing."__ Albert Einstein

Kids are pretty much curious and full of life. They ask parents questions virtually about anything that comes to their mind. They often ask those questions using the six W's, H and I technique; who, what, when, where, why, which, how and if. That is, opened questions.

The need to ask questions cannot be overemphasized. Scientists and researchers conduct researches to proffer answers to some life questions.

There are a lot of benefits we tend to gain when we ask questions. Some of these benefits are listed below.

➢ Asking questions bring about growth.

➢ You keep learning and being more productive when you keep on asking questions.

➢ Asking questions help to know the reason behind most things.

➢ Asking questions fuel innovation.

➢ Asking questions often lead to discovery.

You need not to be egocentric when it comes to questioning things.  Ask questions about virtually everything and never assumed that you know everything. Ask questions that are not easy to answer. Explore, don't ask for asking sake or for self-pity.

Ask yourself brain tasking questions like: what will life be like in one year, five years and ten years?"....

You need to be curious about yourself, those around you and the world in which you live in. Take a pen and write down tough and challenging questions and try to provide honest answers that will bring about growth and self- discovery.

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"No pain, no palm; no thorns, no throne; no gall, no glory; no cross, no crown" __William Penn

There are pretty much of pains people experience. These pains are not necessarily physical pains, that is, pain as a result of injury.  These pains are experienced as a result of financial loss, hard decisions, changes, relationship losses and a host of other.

Almost every successful person has their painful moments.

We go to the cinema to see movies but some of these movies that we see within some hours took years before the producers are done with their productions. We only see the glory but there are always painful stories behind every glory.

Fire purifies and refines gold and make it more desirable and valuable. Gold in its raw form is not desirable. But when it passes through the fire, it become desirable and glitters.  In the same vein, pains are not to kill but to refine us.

John Maxwell said that: " I've never known anyone who said, "I love problems", but I've known many who have admitted that their greatest gains came in middle of pain".

Do not allow your past pain to control or hinder your future gain and glory. No matter the difficult moment or pain that you are going through now, there is gain in it, perhaps, you may not see it but please endure it to the end and you will see that it is worth experiencing.

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