Loving oneself is sometimes erroneously regarded as being greedy or selfish.

Loving oneself is also known as self-love and not loving oneself is self-doubt or self-hate.

Loving oneself is a state of appreciation for oneself  that grows from actions that support our physical, psychological and spiritual growth. It also means not settling for less and not pleasing others so as to gain their approval of you. 

Loving yourself does not imply being a lone-ranger but it means surrounding yourself with people that believe, encourage and  make you feel good.

You can love yourself by believing in yourself, being true to yourself, forgiving yourself and eating healthy foods. Falling in love with oneself means loving oneself the way one is.

"To fall in love with yourself is the first secret to happiness."__ Robert Morley

There are a lot of relationship but the most important relationship is the one with oneself. Loving yourself is embracing your value and talents. You deserve your love and affection. 

You need not to compare yourself with anyone. You are only allowed to compare yourself with only one person which is you  because you a rare gem and different, that is, you are pretty much special.

You need to hold yourself in high esteem by loving yourself and loving yourself bring about increase in self-esteem and self-confidence.

Almost everyone has something they wish they could change about their lives, but they can't change the past. Let go of past blunders and traumas. The past has passed us by and it should be left behind. Learn from your past mistakes if there is a lesson to be learned from it.

"Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have sure"__Oprah Winfrey

We don't need what others think of you to determine whether to love yourself or not. Everyone has their opinion and your own opinion matter most in loving yourself. You can never please everybody, therefore, never sacrifice your well-being so as to pleasing others.

If you don't love yourself, how will people be able to show you some love. Be kind to yourself and be your best friend.

In the final analysis, you need to love yourself unconditionally and remember that no matter what happens in life, the only person that will be there is you. Root for yourself and don't love yourself the less. You need not to dwell on things you can't control. Don't let anyone steal your joy. Always say sweet and positive words to yourself. Your are a champion and there can never be anyone with your fingerprint in the whole universe, that is, you are unique. You are intelligent, enough, smart, strong, confident, caring and the best. You are indispensable, without you the world is incomplete. You are a blessing to humanity. You are like a diamond and precious stone. You are never a failure. KEEP LOVING YOURSELF!!!

Everything above the earth's surface, including the atmosphere and outer space, is referred to as the sky. It's lovely, with its ever-changing color.

Sky is the limit, that is, you can accomplish anything in life because it has no bounds. Anything you can imagine is possible. 

"I'm chasing my dreams straight to the top-into a sky that has no limits," Robert M. Hensel declared. 

With great success, touch the skies. No one should be able to limit your ambitions. Your dreams can take up as much space as the sky allows and it can also be big as the sky. Let no one persuade you to abandon your dreams. You have the ability to transform into anybody or whatever you desire. Don't build castle in the sky. Touch the sky to become a star because that is where stars are found.

Almost everyone has dreams but dreams killers stand as impediments or obstacles. Dream killers prevent dreams from becoming reality. Some dreams are never accomplished, not because they are too big or unattainable but as a result of dreams killers. Many a times,dreamers do back out after experiencing roadblocks.

Before his assassination in 1968, Martin Luther King Jr., an American religious leader and civil-rights campaigner, delivered a remarkable and inspiring speech titled "I Have a Dream." Despite the fact that he was assassinated, his dreams continue on. Killing a dreamer does not guarantee that his or her dreams will not be realized. I've witnessed dreams that lasted longer than the person. The following sections will go over some dream killers.

➢ FEAR

Fear of failure, fear of what others will say, fear of what the future holds, and fear of this and that have prevented the realization of many dreams. It keeps dreamers in their comfort zones by preventing them from taking necessary actions. Two acronyms of fear are False Evidence Appearing Real and Face Everything and Rise. Experiencing fear is not abnormal. Most successful people have experienced fear at some point in their lives. Fear causes false thoughts, and the only way to overcome fear is to face it.

➢ MEDIOCRITY

Settling for less than the best hinders dreams from coming true. Almost every dreamer knows what he or she wants to do, but obstacles or impediments along the way force them to settle for less or choose the easiest route or path. Take responsibility for your dreams and never settle for anything less life brings your way. 

➢ SELF-DOUBT

"I wish I could realize my dreams, but I can't since they are unattainable." "I don't believe my dreams can save the world because I am not as smart as 'Mr. Smarter,' and "I don't believe my dreams can come true because I am not as fat as 'Mrs. Fat.'" Lack of self-confidence is referred to as self-doubt. It is a stumbling block in the path of dreamers. Many inventions have been made possible by people who believe in the beauty of their dreams. As a dreamer, if you don't believe in yourself and your dreams, it will be tough for the dreams to come true. Dreamers must overcome self-doubt in order for their ambitions to become a reality, inability to overcome self-doubt can lead to lifetime regrets.

➢ PROCRASTINATION 

There are a plethora of excuses that dreamers can use to put off responsibilities until later. People put things off for a variety of reasons, one of which is a lack of discipline. Procrastination has resulted in the loss of numerous possibilities. Dreamers have no excuses, no matter how rational they may appear to be. Never put off tasks that must be completed immediately in order for dreams to become a reality.

Finally, no matter how large or small your dreams are, they can come true. It's past time for you to stop succumbing to dream killers and start living your dreams. 

The world is a global village. Internet is one of the best things that has happened to this generation. You can basically connect with anyone in the world irespective of distance. People are making money online from the comfort of their home. The following are five ways you can make money online:

➣ Blogging

Blogging is one of the common means of making money online. Blogging is all about sharing information. You can blog about anything you are passionate about. All you need do is to choose a specific niche, let people know your blog for a particular niche and create contents that will make people come back to your blog. If your blog is able to generate or get traffic, you can use Google AdSense, affiliate marketing and paid advertisement. It involves hard work to be a successful blogger but once you can your dues, be rest assured that money will keep rolling in even when you are sleeping.

➣ YouTube

YouTube is a video sharing platform. The beautiful about YouTube is that you don't need a camera to be a YouTuber, you can use a phone with a good megapixel. You can make videos on anything that you are passionate about, the videos can either educate or entertain.

➣ Freelancing

Freelancing is one of the ways of making money online. You can work from the comfort of your home provided you have a computer and good network.  Skilled like writing, graphics designing programming and a host of other skills are needed in freelancing websites ( Fiverr, Upwork and Guru).

➣ Tutoring Online

If you have passion for teaching, you can be tutoring people online as an expert in any field, it is a profitable venture provided you have a degree or experience. Tutor and Tutorme are common sites for online tutoring.

➣ Selling Photos online

You can sell pictures to websites and make money off it, there are websites where you can sell your photos as photographer and even as amateur. These are the following sites that you  can sell your photos: Shutterstock, iStock Photo, Etsy, Getty Images, Alamy and 500px.

"What rules the world is idea, because ideas define the way reality is perceived."__Irving Kristol

A distinct notion or concept that occurs in a person's head as a result of thinking is known as an idea. Ideas come from unknown world and rule the known world.

We live and work in a world that was built on the backs of other people's ideas. Everything you see all round you became tangible because it was an idea in someone's mind. Our lives are still ruled by the idea of people who came before us. Ideas do bring about transformation.

The products of our thought are ideas. They must, however, be harnessed and put to use in order to be useful. Ideas require special attention before they become reality.

Never dismiss an idea because it appears to be impossible. Almost every brilliant idea appears to be impossible when it first emerges. Outstanding Ideas that rule the world now was once considered unattainable but great thinkers transformed them into realities.

The reality is that ideas, no matter how weird or unrealistic they may have appeared at first, have potential to bring about inventions and solutions to the world's problems.

Many of the great ones, whom the world now reveres as gifted were ordinary people who took extraordinary steps to turn their ideas (irrespective of unattainable it sounded) into reality.

"Ideas can be life-changing. Sometimes all you need to open the door is just one more good idea." __Jim Rohn

The world is rule by ideas, a person's ideas can outlive him or her. Make a list of all the ideas that come to your mind, examine or review your ideas and finally, develop your ideas. The world can't wait for ideas to rule!!!

"A big dream is a substantial wish or an aspiration for something, of which when we attain it; we believe it would fulfill or satisfy an inner longing or desire."__ Duncan Muguku

Everything begins with a dream and the determination to make it a reality. You can shape the future if you can dream it. 

We gravitate toward our ambitions and the goals we establish for ourselves. The more bigger your dreams are, the more tendency for your subconscious to strive for them.

Have big dreams for yourself, dare to imagine great dreams and believe in your ability to achieve them. Your tremendous dream will inspire you for a long time, and you will begin to create miracles!

Dreaming big and then doing nothing is the ultimate dream crusher. To begin, turn on the ignition, step on the throttle, engage the gear, and begin steering.

If we have the guts to pursue our dreams, they will all come true. Always remember that you have the strength, patience, and desire to reach for the stars and change the world.

Your dreams don't have to stay that way forever; they have a real chance of coming true. If you have big dreams, you will achieve them. The combination of a strong belief in yourself and huge goals is what will propel you to personal achievement. 

Finally, Consider the big picture of what you want to accomplish. Dream big about the kind of life you want to live and the impact you want to have. Imagine yourself as the person you want to be. Don't settle for little goals when you may be accomplishing more. Dream big dreams, follow your dreams and the sky will be your begining. .